Word of the Week: BALANCE

The word of the week this week is BALANCE. Life balance is living with peace and harmony.

Would you describe your life as balanced?

How much focus to you give the following 3 areas:
Love (Relationships)?
Life (Self-Care)?

What you focus on is what you get, so if you want better balance, you need to change your focus.

I have spent a lot of money on personal development to achieve work-love-life balance and I still feel challenged most days of the week.

This is one of the reasons for our move to El Dorado Hills back in September 2020. My family and I needed a change of pace.

Living a balanced life doesn’t just happen (even if you move), you have to work for it….

Every Single Day!

Check out the 5 tips for living a well balanced life by Z. Hereford from  Essential Life Skills :

  1. Take care of and nurture yourself. You cannot accomplish anything if you’re unhealthy. Get plenty of rest, exercise and eat properly. Many of us think we can burn the candle at both ends, eat junk food, get a very little exercise, and still function adequately. You may be able to get away with this for a while when you’re young, however, at some point, this lifestyle catches up with the best of us. Burnout is a real possibility. Ideally, set aside time each day for an activity that you enjoy, such as walking, working out or listening to music. Or, allow yourself to unwind after a hectic day by reading, meditating or taking a nice hot bath.
  2. Know what your priorities are. Balance does not entail cramming in every activity possible. Examine your values and decide what’s important to you; then set your boundaries. You may be in the process of building a career, starting a family or going to school. Depending on what stage you’re at in life, your focus and energies will be different. Avoid becoming overwhelmed by juggling too many big projects in your life at once. Maybe planning a wedding is not a good idea when you’re studying for the bar exam. Nor, is starting a family when you are unsure about your career direction, or relationship status. Not knowing what you want and trying to do everything at once can be a recipe for disaster instead of the road to leading a well-balanced life. As the saying goes, “do not bite off more than you can chew”.
  3. Create an efficient mindset. Be organized and plan ahead. Take time at the beginning of each week to assess what needs to be done. Make a to-do list in a planner or calendar for upcoming appointments, impending exams. or meetings to attend. Be sure also to allow for recreation and quality time for yourself and your family. Taking the time to connect with family and friends will recharge your batteries and make you more efficient in the long run.

  4. Expect the unexpected. Rather than get stressed and upset, learn to roll with the punches when something over which you have no control happens. You could get stuck in traffic, your computer could crash, or your child could get sick with the chickenpox. Stuff happens. We’ve all experienced the unexpected. If you accept that anything can happen at any time, it’s less likely it throw you off your stride when it does. Be able to adjust your game plan.Note also, that there are times when achieving balance may not be possible. For instance, you may have a family or career crisis that needs your immediate and undivided attention. It may require an exceptional amount of your time and resources. When that happens, do whatever it takes and when things go back to normal take time to refresh and rejuvenate yourself.

  5. Maintain a positive mental attitude.
    Begin each day with the intention of making the best and most of it. It may not always go as planned, but it can go more smoothly if you put it in perspective. Part of living a well-balanced life is learning how to deal with adversity, unforeseen events and uncertainty. If you practice not letting things get to you, you will not only learn to live a well balanced and less stressful life, you will learn to live in and savor the moment. Once you’ve done everything you can within your control, let your life unfold. Be prepared for the future, but don’t worry about it.

For a simple model to improve your LIFE BAlANCE (self -care) refer to my coaching model here: 7 Daily Primal Needs

Each and every day, do your best to make YOU a priority in all 7 areas.

If you want a coach to support you to create a balanced life, set up a strategy session for our new personalized coaching program here: https://www.iamapriority.com/

Let me know if you need any help.

Questions? Please comment below or call/text me at 650-514-6679.

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Your friend & coach,

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